In This Edition…

  • 9 to 5 Dilemma: Am I Even Good at This?

  • When Everything Feels Like an Option.

  • Tools to Use in Your Job Search Now.

  • Dollyism.

For those in a rush, the TL;DR:

Doing good work isn’t always enough in your career. You have to learn how to communicate your impact so people understand what you’re contributing.

If your manager is busy or your team lacks structure, your work may simply be invisible, not unappreciated.

Three things to focus on:

  • Share updates on your work and results

  • Clearly articulate your contributions

  • Ask for feedback proactively when it isn’t offered

Competence matters. But making your competence visible is what builds confidence, reputation, and career.

And now for the longform content fans…

9 - 5 Dilemma:

“I just graduated in 2025 with my degree in Marketing and (thanks to your help!) started my first job last summer. Now that I’m six months in, I’m starting to question if I’m cut out for the job.

I’m doing my best, but I wasn’t really welcomed into the team and everyone has been too busy to help me very much. I feel like I’ve done a really good job of figuring things out and I’ve already been able to contribute ideas that were used across brand socials.

I understand that not everyone gets called out for good work, but I largely feel… ignored? My boss always skips our 1:1s but will send me slacks telling me I’m doing a good job?

I guess I’m asking, how do I know if I’m doing a good job if no one really tells me one way or another? I’m not super close with the rest of my team to understand if this is normal.

I have anxiety about walking in one day and my boss tells me I’m doing everything wrong and I’m fired.”

-Career Advice for a Newbie.

If you’re six months into your first job and already contributing ideas that are being used across brand socials, you are doing better than you think.

But this dilemma highlights something that almost no one teaches us…

Doing good work and being recognized for good work are two different skills.

Let’s talk about why.

1. Competence matters. But communicating competence matters too.

Early in your career, you assume that if you work hard, people will notice.

Sometimes they do.

But most teams are busy. Managers are stretched thin. People are focused on their own deadlines. In most workplaces, good work gets shredded into the miserable pot of corporate stew.

That doesn’t mean your work isn’t valued, but it usually means it isn’t visible.

This is where a lot of people get stuck. They focus entirely on being competent but never learn how to speak about that competence.

That can look like:

  • Sharing quick updates on progress or results

  • Connecting your work to team or company goals

  • Asking for feedback on specific projects

  • Recapping wins in 1:1s or team channels

This is your work legible to the people around you.

2. Achievements are only visible if you can articulate them.

You mentioned that some of your ideas have already been used across brand socials. That’s a big deal.

But the key question is: does your manager know that?

Not just that you worked on something, but what your idea was and what happened because of it.

Try framing it like:

  • Suggested three content ideas for the fall campaign, one of which became a top-performing Instagram post.

  • Proposed a new format for Reels that the team adopted across multiple channels.

This shift matters because managers are often tracking impact at a higher level. When you help them see the connection between your actions and results, you make their job easier.

And you build your reputation at the same time.

3. Performance vs. perception.

Performance is private. Perception is public.

You may be doing excellent work behind the scenes, but if people don’t understand what you’re contributing, their perception will lag behind your actual performance.

That’s why learning how to talk about your work clearly and confidently is a career skill.

Not in an arrogant way. Not in a “look at me” way.

In a professional storytelling way.

Something as simple as this in a 1:1 can change the dynamic:

“I realized we haven’t had much time to connect lately, so I wanted to share a quick update on what I’ve been working on and get your feedback.”

Then walk through:

  • What you worked on

  • What you figured out independently

  • What impact it had

  • Where you’d like guidance

Managers appreciate this more than you might think.

4. No one really teaches us this.

Most of us aren’t taught how to communicate their work. We’re taught how to do the work.

In school, the focus is on completing assignments, learning the material, and producing results. The assumption is that if you do a good job, it will naturally be recognized with a good grade and a solid GPA.

Workplaces don’t always operate that way.

So people enter their careers believing that competence will automatically translate into recognition, promotions, and opportunities. When it doesn’t, they assume they’re doing something wrong.

Many people— even 10, 15, or 20 years into their careers — are asking the same question you are:

How do I know if I’m doing a good job if no one really tells me?

Learning how to communicate your impact, ask for feedback, and make your contributions visible is a skill most of us have to figure out along the way.

5. The anxiety you’re feeling is incredibly common

The fear of walking in one day and hearing, “You’ve been doing everything wrong” is something I hear from clients at every career stage.

But in most organizations, that’s not how performance works.

If a manager is sending you messages saying you’re doing a good job, that’s actually a positive sign.

What’s missing is structure and communication.

One small move you could make is sending a message like this:

“I know our 1:1s have been tough to schedule, but it would really help me to get a little feedback on how I’m doing so far and where I can keep improving. Could we find 20 minutes in the next week or two?”

One last thought

Many people spend the early part of their career believing they have to quietly prove themselves before they’re allowed to talk about their contributions.

In reality, your ability to explain your impact is part of the job.

Because work only creates opportunities when people understand the value behind it. And learning how to do that clearly and confidently is one of the most powerful career skills you can build.

When Everything Feels Like an Option.

There’s a point in your career where everything starts to feel possible.

New roles. Different industries. Stretch opportunities. Maybe even a path you’ve been thinking about for years.

In theory, that sounds like freedom.

But in practice it’s exhausting.

Because when you don’t have a strategy, everything looks like an option.

And without clear filters, it becomes really hard to tell the difference between something worth pursuing… and something that’s just pulling your attention.

So you stay in motion.

You scroll.
You save roles you’re not sure you even want.
You have conversations that feel productive in the moment, but leave you more uncertain after.

Because you’re trying to make decisions without anything anchoring them.

You need something to come back to when everything starts to feel equally important.

What filters actually do.

Filters are what give you clarity. They aren’t intended to feel limiting or like you’re boxed in, although it may feel that way at first.

They help you quickly sense:

  • Does this align with the kind of work I want to be doing?

  • Does this environment support how I operate at my best?

  • Is this moving me forward or just giving me something to react to?

  • Who am I doing this for?

  • Am I interested in this because it’s comfortable or “easy"?

When you don’t have those filters, everything requires energy.
Every option feels like something you need to seriously consider.

When you do have them, things shift.

You stop overanalyzing every opportunity.
You start recognizing what fits (and what doesn’t) much faster.

The shift that changes everything.

The goal is to get better at closing the right ones.

Clarity comes from trusting yourself to filter what’s actually worth your time, energy, and attention.

That’s what strategy gives you.

Not just a path forward, but a way to move through your career with more confidence, intention, and ease.

If everything feels like an option right now, it might not be a sign that you need to do more.

It might be a sign that you need something to help you decide.

If you were my client, I’d be telling you to use these 2 tools in your search.

The job search is changing faster than most people realize. For years the process was:

Scroll → apply → repeat

But (don’t hate me, I know you’re tired of hearing about it..) AI is changing the entire structure of the job search:

  • Search is no longer manual
    Tools now scan hundreds of thousands of jobs daily and surface what actually fits you

  • Matching is shifting from keywords → actual skill alignment
    Instead of guessing, tools are evaluating your experience and matching you to roles you’re actually qualified for

The tools I’m liking right now

Not all of them are good. Some are creating a lot of noise.

But a few are actually shifting how people search in a meaningful way:

Jobright
This is the closest thing I’ve seen to a true “job search copilot.”

  • Matches you to roles based on your actual experience, not just job titles

  • Automates applications and tracks everything

  • Beware of the resume customization feature— it’s not there yet (and frankly, none of them are). It’s great at identifying keywords or skills your version is missing, but their customization will just blindly stuff keywords into places that don’t make sense.

Hiring.cafe
This one solves a different problem.

  • Pulls jobs directly from company career pages

  • Cuts out reposted or outdated listings

  • Uses AI filters so you can search more precisely

It’s cleaner, more direct, and honestly feels closer to how job search should work.

Ok, but…

If AI is making it easier to apply…

Then applying is no longer the advantage.

Let me say that again:

👉 Access is no longer the differentiator.

Everyone has access to tools.
Everyone can apply faster.
Everyone can generate a “good” resume.

We’re seeing that everywhere… in the pools of thousands of resumes and applications in an ATS.

So what actually matters?

What still determines whether you get the job

  • How clearly you understand your value

  • Whether your experience translates to the role

  • If you can articulate the problems you solve

  • How you show up in conversations

AI cannot tell your story for you in a way that actually lands.

And if you rely on it to do that, you’ll sound like everyone else.

The shift people need to make

Start thinking:

“What problems do I want to be paid to solve and where do those show up?”

The people who win in this next version of the job market won’t be the ones applying the most.

They’ll be the ones who:

  • know exactly where they fit

  • use tools strategically (not blindly)

  • and can clearly communicate their value when it matters

Dollyism.

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